About Love Not Lost
Love Not Lost is a cosy late-night lounge bar and live music venue tucked down Allen Street in Wellington’s Courtenay Place precinct. In its own words, it serves “damn fine” soul food, hand-crafted cocktails and craft beer in a relaxed, sofa-filled setting (www.theshout.co.nz ). Open every day from midday until 3am, it operates as both a casual eatery and an underground club space (www.theshout.co.nz ). The décor is distinctive: about three-quarters of the seating is custom leather couches that give it a homey vibe, with a colourful mural on the wall painted by the owner’s sister (www.theshout.co.nz ). This plush lounge atmosphere – complete with dim lighting and space for a makeshift dance floor – sets Love Not Lost apart from typical franchises. In short, it’s known locally as a “must-visit late-night lounge bar” that blends comfortable dining with quality nightlife (www.theshout.co.nz ).
Love Not Lost’s history is very recent (opened around 2020). Since opening, it has quickly become a neighbourhood fixture. The owners continuously tweak the décor (as one manager put it, “a good bar is never finished” (www.theshout.co.nz )), but the core laid-back soul-and-blues vibe remains constant. Many Wellingtonians appreciate that the bartending team comes with decades of experience (combined nearly 30 years behind the bar) and a large selection of craft beers on tap (www.theshout.co.nz ). The menu reflects this soul focus: a New Orleans–trained chef produces rich “soul food” dishes – think hearty burgers, loaded mac ‘n’ cheese and crispy fried sides – which reviewers describe as “simple but really delicious” (www.theshout.co.nz ). According to press coverage, Love Not Lost quickly earned a reputation for both its food and its music, calling it “a comfortable lounge bar” where “love for Wellington’s dance music community” shines through (www.theshout.co.nz ) (www.theshout.co.nz ).www.sluurpy.nz ). Another calls it an “awesome venue” with “great staff” and “mad tunes,” and even booked it for a friend’s wake where “the environment... was perfect” (www.sluurpy.nz ). In summary, Love Not Lost matters to Wellington’s scene because it is one of the few spots that seamlessly mixes a chill lounge vibe, quality cocktails and food, plus a dance-club energy on weekend nights. Its combination of craft beer taps, soulful menu, and homey design – along with support for local DJs and artists – makes it a unique pillar of the city’s nightlife.
Events and Programming
Love Not Lost hosts a wide range of events, from DJs and dance parties to small live shows. In general, Friday and Saturday nights are peak time: the venue turns into a club scene after 10pm with DJs spinning genres like house, techno, drum & bass and UK garage (www.theshout.co.nz ). For example, early 2023 saw a drum-&-bass showcase featuring Wellington DJs Scarfie, Kalo, Gusty and others at Love Not Lost (www.ticketfairy.com ). Previous years included themed club nights such as a “French Flavour” dance party, UK Garage nights, and special after-parties. In late 2022 they ran a UK Garage & Bassline showcase and even an “after-party” for a local festival (the Big Dance’s “High Tide” after-party) (www.ticketfairy.com ) (www.ticketfairy.com ). Local promoters regularly stage electronic music and hip-hop events there: for example, Christchurch rapper Tweed and Auckland’s Doomi headlined a sold-out hip-hop show in November 2022 (www.ticketfairy.com ), and indie-rock band Crosseyed played an intimate gig in September 2022 (www.ticketfairy.com ).
Programming changes seasonally, but a few things recur. The venue often features local talent (Wellington DJs and bands), sometimes alongside international or inter-city acts. It’s common to see drum-&-bass crews, hip-hop showcases or Latin/soul music specials. Between these ticketed events, Love Not Lost also DJs over the weekend. On quieter nights it functions like a regular bar, but weekend bookings typically require buying a ticket or cover. Ticket prices vary: smaller local DJ nights might charge around NZ$10–$15 door cover, while bigger headliners or themed festivals can push $20–$30. Tickets (and updates) are usually sold through local promoters well in advance. Patrons can check for events via the venue’s official announcements or local Wellington event listings. (The venue itself doesn’t have a traditional box office, so most tickets are online or at the door.) The bar’s late-night hours mean shows often end at 2am or later, with the bar staying open until 3am to let the crowd dance.
Tickets and Booking
For special nights and concerts, tickets are typically released ahead of time by the event promoters. Love Not Lost doesn’t sell tickets directly at a box office; instead, fans buy online or via local ticketing platforms and at-the-door (if space allows). Popular shows can sell out, so the best strategy is to buy early once an event is announced. Advance tickets often come in price tiers (early-bird, general, door). Cover charges are common at late-night parties. On average, expect DJ events to be in the $10–$20 range (with door sales possibly higher), while touring acts or festival after-parties may charge $25 or more. Keep an eye on local listings for presale start dates and deadlines. If you miss out on advance tickets, a limited number of door tickets are often sold at the bar entrance (cash or card) until the venue is full.
Daytime or casual bar patrons generally do not need tickets – Love Not Lost operates as an open restaurant/bar during afternoon and early evening without cover. However, any special event (especially Friday/Saturday night) may require that slug on the door. When in doubt, it’s wise to arrive early for a concert, as door entry times vary (usually around 10pm for night shows). The bar’s staff or social media pages (official Facebook/Instagram) will note if a particular night is a ticketed event. Remember to check age limits: all dance/music events at Love Not Lost are 18+ (ID required) due to the late hours and liquor license, so make sure to bring photo ID when buying tickets or arriving on event nights.
Seating and Layout
Love Not Lost is not a seated theatre but a flexible lounge-club space. Almost all seating is casual lounge-style: leather couches and low tables line the walls and center area (www.theshout.co.nz ). During busy nights, these sofas can be moved aside to clear a dance floor in the middle. The front of the venue has a long bar counter with a few high stools, and the back area hosts a pool table and standing room. There is no fixed stage – DJs or performers usually set up on a raised platform or corner near the dancefloor. Sightlines are good from most areas: lounging on a couch still offers a clear view of the DJ booth, and latecomers can stand or sit near the bar. If you plan to focus on the music, the floor area in front of the DJ is best for sound immersion; if you prefer chatting or people-watching, the front lounge areas are quieter. Patrons often note that the venue feels intimate – with capacity roughly around 70–100 people – so it never feels overwhelmingly big. One advantage is the sound quality: the experienced staff dubs themselves "laid back but on point," noting that with 30 years of combined experience behind the bar they “consistently produce quality cocktails” while their 10-tap sound system pumps “awesome” bass-heavy music (www.theshout.co.nz ). (During rowdier events the music will be loud everywhere, so expect a dance-club volume by midnight.)
There are no traditional box seats or VIP tables. On a first-come basis, larger groups can usually grab an entire couch or corner section if they arrive early. Do note the acoustics: like most club venues, applause and pounding music travel easily, so the back dance area will be significantly louder than near the cash registers or front door. Outside of event nights, the layout still encourages mingling: the pool table in the rear provides casual entertainment, and the moveable couches mean the bar can adapt if it needs more open space. Overall, the atmosphere is one of a chic lounge meeting a community club – comfortable seating corners and an open dance floor share the same room.
Getting There and Parking
Love Not Lost is located on Allen Street, right off Courtenay Place in central Wellington. The nearest street address (Allen Street) is just a block west of the Courtenay Place bars and theatres. For public transport, the venue is very accessible. Major Metlink buses run along Courtenay Place, which is essentially steps away. For example, the Metlink Route 1 bus has a stop (Courtenay Place – Stop A) right by the corner of Courtenay and Allen (moovitapp.com ). Other routes (3, 23, 29, etc.) also serve Courtenay Place or nearby Lambton Quay stops. Wellington Train Station is about a 15-minute walk away down Willis/Lambton Quay if you prefer rail (plus a short bus ride). If you’re coming by ride-share or taxi, ask the driver to drop you on Courtenay Place or Allen Street; there’s usually space at the street corner for drop-off.
Driving in can be tricky since Central Wellington is largely metered parking territory. Street parking around Allen and Courtenay is regulated by Wellington’s W01–W46 parking zones. These zones use pay-and-display meters (fees and time limits vary by spot) (wellington.govt.nz ). Always check the nearby signage. A safer bet is the nearby Hall Street Car Park at 7–11 Hall Street (between Allen Street and Webb Street). This Wilson Parking garage offers casual parking from around NZ$4 per hour (www.wilsonparking.co.nz ), and is open late. (Another option is the nearby Wilson parking on Taranaki or Manners St.) Expect to pay more for anything closer to Courtenay Place nights/weekends. If you arrive late at night (after bars close), street meters are typically off overnight, but check the green signs.
For bicycles, there are a few city bike racks along Courtenay Place (free). Also note that the area is well-lit and pedestrian-friendly, so many locals just walk from nearby hotels or the central business district. In all cases, it’s wise to allow extra time to find parking or catch a bus – nights can be busy in this entertainment district. But once you bank your gear or stop outside, the venue is essentially on the corner of Allen Street, a quick hop from the main nightlife arteries.
Inside the Venue
When you enter Love Not Lost, be prepared for a relaxed yet energetic vibe. Upon arrival for a show, staff will typically check ID at the door (remember to carry photo ID if you plan to drink alcohol). There may be a brief bag check on busy nights, but otherwise guests are welcome to bring lightweight personal items; large backpacks or outside beverages are not allowed. Shoes and shirts are required; the dress code is smart-casual – jeans and a nice top or shirt are common (no need for formal attire). Smoking is not allowed indoors (by law), but there’s a small street-level roster where guests can step outside for a cigarette.
Inside, you’ll see the long wooden bar straight ahead or to one side. This is where you can order food or drinks. The cocktail menu is extensive and creative (for example, one reviewer raved about a coconut-flavored ‘From Russia With I’ cocktail (www.sluurpy.nz )). The bar keeps about 10 rotating craft beer taps, often featuring Waikato and local brews (www.theshout.co.nz ). There’s a good selection of typical spirits, mixers and even some local wines on offer. Prices are moderate – cocktails might be around NZ$16-18, beers $8-10 – and menus are posted above the bar and on free table menus. Credit card payment is accepted, though some prefer cash for quicker service.
The rest of the club has that lounge ambience. Couches and coffee tables fill most of the space, so groups can sit together and still feel part of the action. You’ll find power outlets near some seats if someone needs to charge a phone, and the bartenders usually handle drink orders swiftly. If an event has merchandise (like a visiting DJ’s stickers or local artist t-shirts), there’s often a small rack or table with merch near the entrance or backstage area. Restrooms (typically two sets of toilets) are located along the side – one area for men, one for women; they’re standard city-bar size (clean but can get busy on peak nights). There’s no formal coat check or cloakroom, so guests usually keep coats in their seats or hang them on hooks by the walls if provided.
The overall atmosphere inside is warm and social. The decor is quirky and ever-changing – expect pop art paintings, fairy lights or rotating art pieces. The lighting is dim and moody, but turns into club-style colored beams when the music starts. If you want to mingle, there’s open floor space as well as the bar itself to stand at. If you prefer to chill, grab a couch early and order some appetizers: favorites include loaded curly fries, cauliflower bites, mac-and-cheese and gourmet burgers. (Customers note the cauliflower poppers are “deep fried nicely” (www.sluurpy.nz ) and the mac ‘n’ cheese is “rich” and filling (www.sluurpy.nz ).) A small selection of non-alcoholic mocktails and soft drinks is available too.
Connectivity wise, the bar does not generally offer public Wi-Fi for guests once the party starts – but cell coverage is solid inside. Music takes center stage in the late evening: when DJs kick on, you’ll feel the bass thump through the floor. Many patrons recommend bringing earplugs if you’re sensitive. Finally, if you have special needs (mobility or otherwise), check the entrance: there might be a few steps or a short ramp, and staff can assist as needed. In short, inside Love Not Lost feels like someone’s stylish, lived-in living room that suddenly lights up into a club – expect great tunes, tasty drinks, and friendly service throughout the night.
Nearby Amenities
Courtney Quarter (Courtenay Place and its side streets) is one of Wellington’s liveliest nightlife zones, so there’s no shortage of places to go before or after. For pre-show dinner, nearby Allen Street has some cafes and food trucks. More notably, on the next block down Courtenay Place you’ll find many restaurants: affordable quick eats (McDonald’s or Subway), as well as hip spots like Eggmont Street Eatery (American diner fare) and Hop Garden Bar (craft beer pub). A little further north on Cuba Street are bakeries and Asian eateries. If you prefer formal dining, Cuba Street hosts high-end choices like Logan Brown (jazz and fine dining) just 10 minutes’ walk away.
For a drink beforehand, the Courtenay Place block is packed with bars. Treasured institutions like Rogue and Vagabond (New World pub vibe), Boulcott Street Bistro, and nearby St. John’s Bar offer craft beers and cocktails. Many bar-goers start the night at these before heading to Love Not Lost around 10pm. An easier option is Rendezvous Hotel’s bar – just around the corner – which has happy hour deals from 5pm daily and valet parking for guests (if you’re staying there). The Fiddlesticks at the top end of Courtenay Place is another local brew pub.
Several hotels lie within walking distance of Love Not Lost. The closest is the Rendezvous Hotel (formerly James Cook) right on the corner of Courtenay and Allen. Also nearby are the QT Wellington (artsy waterfront hotel, 10 minutes away), Novotel or Travelodge on Lambton Quay (15-minute walk north), and heritage options like The Bolton. If you’re catching up with out-of-town friends, these are convenient bases – all offer mobile check-in so you can dash over to the venue quickly.
After hours, Wellington has 24/7 taxi stands on Liverpool Street (off Courtenay Place) and one behind Novotel that generally have cabs available until very late. Rideshare drop-offs are best done back on Courtenay or near the waterfront side of the city (Lyall Bay). The last trains north/south leave around midnight, but late-night Metlink buses (N-lines) run weekends roughly hourly until 3am. In practice, many people plan to catch a taxi from the city center after Love Not Lost closes at 3am. If you do drive, make sure to check parking time limits – many meters turn off overnight, but car parks (like Hall Street) close around midnight and have caps for overnight stays.
What Makes This Venue Special
Love Not Lost stands out for its seamless blend of welcoming lounge and vibrant dance club. Its unique character comes from details big and small. Architecturally it feels like a low-ceilinged basement or warehouse space filled with eclectic décor – from the homely leather couches to the neon bar signs and custom wall art. Unlike a generic pub, it has a distinct soul theme: the menu, music and even the name all evoke that idea of heartening connection. The New Orleans–styled soul-food menu is unusual for a local bar, and the owners pride themselves on creative cocktails and craft beers that locals rave about (www.theshout.co.nz ). As one patron quipped, it’s a place where you can “walk in and ask for what you feel like” and trust the bartenders to know their stuff (www.theshout.co.nz ).
Culturally, Love Not Lost has become a hub for Wellington’s electronic and underground music scene. In an era when big clubs are scarce, this venue revived late-night club culture. It has hosted Wellington’s drum-&-bass collectives, live hip-hop crews, and touring DJs from around the world (for instance, UK drum-&-bass artist Joe “Need For Mirrors” recently headlined here (www.ticketfairy.com )). Local musicians appreciate its solid sound system (even international acts have commented on its quality) and the attentive crowd. For the community, the bar has filled the void left by older clubs, giving DJs a respected home and dance fans a reliable place to gather. Even Wellington City Council notices venues like this as part of the “night-time economy” that keeps the city lively and jobs going.
Historically, the space itself may not have major heritage, but its impact is already notable. It helped restart Allen Street’s nightlife (it’s sometimes called the Allen Street Club by flyers) and contributed new traditions. For example, it unofficially took over roles like hosting after-parties (keeping festival energy going), or specialty nights (a “Hot 90s” or Halloween parties). Legendary moments might not be globally famous yet, but locals will remember nights when the place was packed shoulder-to-shoulder, or outdoor events on the street as neighbours spill out. Simply put, Love Not Lost is special because it injects soul – both musical and social – into Wellington’s inner-city scene, and both artists and audiences love its inclusive, dynamic energy.
Visitor Tips and Information
What is the address of Love Not Lost?
Love Not Lost is located on Allen Street, just off Courtenay Place in central Wellington. (It’s in the Courtenay Quarter near the intersection with Cuba Street.) The venue sits a block down from the main Courtenay Place bars, with street entrances on the same level as Courtenay Place.
Is there parking near Love Not Lost, and what does it cost?
On-street parking in this area is metered under Wellington’s CBD parking zones. Meters operate by pay-and-display (W01–W46 zones) with rates and time limits posted on signs (wellington.govt.nz ). The nearest secure car park is the Wilson Parking garage on Hall Street (at Hall & Webb St), which offers casual parking from about $4 per hour (www.wilsonparking.co.nz ). Expect higher rates on weekend nights. Always check signs for any evening limits. (If you arrive after midnight, on-street meters are usually off until 7am, but the Hall St Car Park closes overnight.)
What public transport serves Love Not Lost?
Love Not Lost is very accessible by bus. Several Metlink bus routes stop on Courtenay Place right next to Allen Street. For instance, the No.1 bus stops at the Courtenay Place - Stop A, which is right in front of the venue (moovitapp.com ). Other frequent routes, including the 3 and 23, also stop on Courtenay Place or nearby Lambton Quay. Wellington Railway Station is about a 15-minute walk (or a short bus ride) away. In summary, use any bus that serves Courtenay Place (check real-time maps or ask a local) and walk a block down Allen Street.
What are the best seats or viewing spots inside Love Not Lost?
Seating is open and unreserved. Most people pick prime spots by lounge couches near the bar or walls. If you prefer a front-row view of a DJ, head to the floor area in front of the DJ booth or stand near the dance floor. If you want to chat quietly, early arrivals can grab sofa seats along the sides, which stay comparatively calmer. There are no numbered seats, so getting there early for a big show can mean the difference between a couch and standing room. Either way, the space is small enough that even those in the back can still see and hear well.
How and when can I buy tickets for shows at Love Not Lost?
Tickets are usually sold through the event promoters in advance. Watch local event listings for Love Not Lost and buy online as soon as tickets go on sale. Some shows release early-bird tickets or presale rounds. If tickets are still available, you can often buy them at the door on the night (cash or card) until sold out. For the busiest acts, however, early purchase is safest. There is no physical box office at the venue, so plan ahead by using recognised local ticket outlets. Note: all events at Love Not Lost are strictly 18+ with ID required.
What is the typical ticket price or cover charge?
Prices vary by event. For local DJ nights or parties, cover is often around NZ$10–$20. Special live shows or touring acts might charge more (NZ$25–$30 or higher). Drinks and food are separate. Doors usually open at 10pm for late-night events. There is often a small fee for online booking or a booking service. If you don’t buy in advance, the door price might be slightly higher.
Is Love Not Lost a seated venue or general admission?
Love Not Lost has no formal assigned seating. It’s essentially general admission. Guests are free to choose from couches or stand anywhere. The couches function like movable seating; aside from that, it’s mostly open floor. So if you want a chair or couch spot, arrive early. There are no guaranteed or numbered seats.
Are children or people under 18 allowed?
No – Love Not Lost is an 18+ venue in the evenings. Because they have a full liquor license until 3am, all patrons must be 18 or older on event nights (which includes late Friday/Saturday nights and any music shows). You will be asked to show photo ID if you look under 25. During daytime dining hours (before 5pm, when alcohol service first begins), families might occasionally eat there, but any advertised events or late-night club nights will enforce 18+ strictly.
What is the dress code at Love Not Lost?
The dress code is generally casual to smart-casual. Patrons typically wear jeans, nice sneakers or boots, and a tidy shirt or top. You won’t need dressy clothes or fancy heels. However, this isn’t a sports-bar either, so avoid athletic gear or hats. Smart jeans and a fashionable jacket or blouse is perfect. Shorts and sandals are acceptable in summer; just keep it neat. The key is comfortable club clothes in which you can dance.
Is there a coat check or place to store belongings?
There is no formal coat check. Guests usually keep coats on couches or hang them on wall hooks if available. The space is relatively small, so it’s best to minimize large bags. Most people just carry a small purse or wallet and keep it on them. If you bring a jacket, you can drape it over your seat. Security may hold any suspicious large bags for scanning, but generally light belongings are fine at your feet.
Are outside food or drinks allowed inside?
No – outside food or beverages are not permitted. You must purchase from the venue. That means all meals, snacks, and all drinks (alcoholic or non-alcoholic) must come from the bar’s menu. Love Not Lost has a full kitchen and bar, so plan on buying in-house. Water is available for sale behind the bar or as a courtesy on request, but bring your own soda or snacks.
Do they have a smoking area?
Smoking is banned inside by law. The building opens directly onto the Allen Street sidewalk, so smokers step outside to the street. There are ashtrays on the sidewalk or a corner outside for convenience. Staff usually don’t mind if a few patrons have cigarettes out front, but keep the door clear and be quick so as not to disturb neighbors. Vapor/e-cigarette use is often treated like smoking.
What food and drink options are available?
The menu is casual comfort food with Southern US flair. Expect gourmet burgers (with varying spice levels), deep-fried snacks (like mac ‘n’ cheese croquettes and battered cauliflower bites) and fun sides (curly fries, loaded nachos). One review specifically praised the cocktails and mix of spices on the menu, noting the “From Russia with I” coconut-flavored cocktail and tasty fried cauliflower (www.sluurpy.nz ). For drinks, they boast about 10 rotating craft beer taps (www.theshout.co.nz ), local wines, and a long cocktail list. Non-alcoholic drinks (sodas, juices) are sold too. In short: hearty, filling pub food – perfect fuel for a night out – and a good curated bar selection.
Is Love Not Lost wheelchair accessible?
Access is somewhat limited due to the building’s layout. The entrance is at street level (a few small steps from Courtenay Place) which may pose a challenge. Inside, the main area is relatively flat and can accommodate a wheelchair, but space is tight. There is a downstairs area (the main floor) with room to maneuver once inside, and at least one designated washroom is wheelchair-sized. Still, patrons needing full accessible entry should call ahead. The venue strives to be inclusive, but it was an older building retrofit; if you have specific needs (ramp, or elevator), it’s best to confirm accessibility with the staff before visiting.
What should I bring when attending Love Not Lost?
Key items: photo ID (required for all 18+ events), cash or card for drinks, and earplugs if you’re sensitive to loud music. Dress comfortably (see dress code above). A small bag or jacket is fine, but avoid anything bulky. Since it’s an all-ages nighttime venue, plan your transport ahead. It’s also wise to have a backup ride arranged if you’ll stay late. And bring your appetite – patrons often say the food is so good you might want a late-night snack (one reviewer even hosted a wake and loved the refreshments! (www.sluurpy.nz )).
